Leylah Fernandez, the 22-year-old tennis professional and 2021 US Open finalist, recently shared her intention to go on her very first date during the upcoming National Bank Open in Montréal. After a win at the Mubadala Citi DC Open in Washington, DC, Fernandez revealed she had opened her Instagram direct messages to gauge interest from potential suitors in her hometown.
“There’ve been a lot of responses,” Fernandez said, noting she received over 100 messages on the first day alone. The idea was sparked by a conversation with her father and coach, Jorge Fernandez, who asked if she had ever been on a date. She explained, “I’ve never really had the time, and no one’s really asked me, which, I don’t know why! He suggested I post a video on Instagram and have a date in Montréal where you feel at home and you feel comfortable.”
Her father added a condition: “Of course, he was like, ‘But, he has to meet me first!’ I agreed that was 100% fair.”
The world No. 36 has found that many of the messages came from athletes, some of whom shared similar sentiments about their own dating lives. Fernandez reflected, “I got responses from other athletes, including ones I went to the Olympics with, and they told me, ‘I know how you feel,’ or, ‘When I was 22, I hadn’t gone on a date yet, either.’ At this age, we’re all either studying or going to sports competitions, so reading those messages not only makes me feel better and like I’m not the odd one out, but it’s also pretty cool that we’re able to have those conversations together.”
The gesture drew parallels to Eugenie Bouchard’s previous public interaction when she took a fan on a date after Twitter exchanges. Bouchard, who is winding down her tennis career and will end it in Montréal, expressed support for Fernandez’s approach, advising caution and vetting potential dates carefully. She said, “I hope she vets the person beforehand; that’s what I did before my Twitter date. I did a background check on my guy, so as long as she does that, we’re all good. I hope she has a great time, and she’d better thank me for that idea.”
Fernandez described her ideal first date as typical and simple: meeting for coffee and a walk in the park. She added, “I’ve never been on one date before, so I just want to experience how it goes from there. We’re not going to think too much ahead. It’s also about getting to know each other, what his hobbies are and what he likes.”
Regarding relationships on tour, Bouchard noted the challenges of long-distance romance and recommended avoiding dating fellow players. “With our lifestyle, it has to be long distance, and long distance is just so hard… unless you want to date someone on the tour, which I highly recommend you don’t do. My DMs are always open until there’s a ring!” she joked.
Fernandez promised to keep fans updated once her date is set but emphasized it wouldn’t be a public spectacle.